MY APPROACH​​

My approach is based on the motto, "Building Stronger Relationships Through Play" and prioritizes the importance and power of relationships in play therapy and child counseling. I believe that attuned and reflective interactions are central to the development of secure relationships.  It is through secure relationship(s) that children are able to manage their emotions, express themselves, develop their self-esteem and problem solving skills, and get along better with their peers and family members.  This "relationship approach" is the foundation of my work with clients, regardless of their age or the issue(s) they are experiencing.

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For children and individuals with trauma and attachment issues, the impact of relational experiences cannot be overstated. For more information about my work with children in the foster care system or who have been adopted, click here. Early attachment relationships shape one's sense of safety, trust, and self-worth, laying the groundwork for future connections and emotional well-being. Through compassionate and attuned relationships, individuals can begin to repair ruptures in attachment and develop secure bases for exploration and growth.

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Many parent(s)/caregiver(s) that I work with have a limited understanding of what is going on with their child and have difficulty figuring out what they child needs and ways to respond to this need.  I view this as much of an issue as the behavior of the child.  As part of my approach, I have parent(s)/caregiver(s) and their child play, in a certain way, 30 minutes a week.  It is through this play that parent(s)/caregiver(s) began to increase their understanding of their child and respond to the needs of their child, rather than react to their child's behavior.

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Additionally, I believe that the child's development also plays an important role in the treatment process.  It is important for parent(s)/caregiver(s) to make sure their expectations are developmentally appropriate.  Part of my intake process is assessing the child's level of development. 

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For more information about play therapy and child counseling and my approach, check out my "Commonly Asked Questions" page.

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​In conclusion, my treatment philosophy emphasizes the critical role of relationships in my work with children and their families. By prioritizing the therapeutic alliance and integrating trauma-informed and attachment-focused practices, I aspire to create an understanding, nurturing, and empowering space where children and their families can resolve many of their issues in the context of supportive and compassionate relationships.​​